Going through a divorce can be a stressful and difficult process. Luckily, our divorce settlement agreement makes this process as straightforward and painless as possible. This help guide will assist you in completing your divorce settlement agreement and explain your options when filing for divorce, sometimes called filing for a "dissolution of marriage."
One of the main things you will accomplish in your agreement is deciding how to divide the assets and debts you or your spouse acquired during the marriage. Typically, property that was received prior to the marriage or after separation will remain with the original individual owner. However, you may choose to split up your assets any way you want, whether owned jointly or individually. If you owned a home together, this will often be the largest asset that must be divided. You and your spouse can agree to let one of you keep it, or you may choose to sell the home and divide the net profits. If any one spouse retains title to the marital home and a mortgage exists on the property, that spouse must refinance the mortgage in his or her separate name within 60 days of receiving a final divorce decree.
Although you may specify how you want to divide any assets you wish in the agreement, you do not need to list every item the two of you own, unless you want to. It is sufficient to simply list the items that have significant monetary or sentimental value. Small knick-knacks do not need to be included unless you just want to be thorough or one of the spouses really cares about them. The agreement states that all property not specifically listed will remain with the spouse who has physical possession of it (if it is a tangible asset such as a boat or animal) or who has documented ownership rights (if it is an intangible asset such as a bank account or stock).
If applicable, you will need to decide which parent will have legal and physical custody of any children. "Legal custody" refers to the right to make important life decisions regarding the child, including decisions regarding education, upbringing, finances, and health care. "Physical custody" refers to the parent the child will primarily live with. You will also specify visitation rights for both parents in the next section.
There are many different potential arrangements for child custody. One parent might have legal custody while the other has physical custody, one parent might have both legal and physical custody, or the parents might both have joint custody. Awarding joint custody is the modern trend among courts; however, custody usually depends on whatever is in the best interests of the child or children. Sometimes joint physical custody is impossible because the parents live too far apart. Other times, one spouse gets sole custody because the other spouse exhibited bad behavior toward the children in some way.
It is very common for one parent to be required to pay child support. Most states make it easy to find their guidelines online so that you can calculate how much child support will be paid. It is helpful to review your state's guidelines to determine an amount that the court will likely approve.
State law varies as to what kind and how much alimony or spousal support is permitted. If you live in a community property state (Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, or Wisconsin), then an award of alimony in your case may be prohibited or greatly limited. The rationale for this is because the spouse in need of support will already be compensated more from the marital property than he or she would in non-community property states. For this reason, it is best to try to limit what you and your spouse agree on in the agreement as far as the amount and duration of the alimony to be paid.
Again, states vary as to how long alimony support may last. Typically, courts prefer to award alimony on a short-term basis—say one to three years—until the other spouse can become self-sufficient. However, some courts will allow for longer support if warranted under the circumstances. Therefore, keep in mind that the court has the power to alter the alimony amount and duration.
Our form allows you to specify whether a spouse wants a name change. Although you are not required to change your name when you get a divorce, many people choose to do so as part of starting their new life. Having the judge approve your legal name change will save you the additional hassle and expense of having to do it later on in a separate procedure.
The final step is to have both spouses sign the agreement in front of a notary public. If you and your spouse live far apart or are not on speaking terms, one spouse can sign in front of a notary and then mail, email, or fax it to the other spouse who will also need to sign in front of a notary. Both parties should retain a copy of the fully executed agreement for their records.
Although a divorce attorney can be helpful, they are not required. Many people opt to handle the divorce on their own or through a neutral third-party mediator. Divorce attorneys are most useful when there are issues in the divorce that are hotly contested by the spouses, such as child custody, alimony, or the division of assets. However, if both spouses are willing to work together to negotiate a settlement, then you can probably get away with not using an attorney. If you do have a divorce attorney, you can still save yourself expensive legal fees by creating this agreement yourself and then having your attorney review it, instead of having the attorney draft it for you.
Note that state law varies greatly as to the specific requirements for initiating a divorce case in family court. For help figuring out the specific forms and procedures you should follow, contact a family or divorce court administrator (often the Clerk of Court) at the court that you will file your case in.
All 50 states now grant divorce based on no-fault grounds. A "no-fault" divorce is a divorce based on the consent of both spouses. The spouses are simply claiming that their marriage is irretrievably broken due to irreconcilable differences. Many states have completely done away with fault-based divorce and now only allow no-fault divorces. These states are Arizona, California, Colorado, District of Columbia, Florida, Hawaii, Iowa, Kentucky, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Oregon, Tennessee, Washington, and Wisconsin. If you are filing your case in one of these states, then your agreement will automatically specify that you are seeking a no-fault divorce.
If you are not in one of the states listed above, then you will have the option of specifying whether you want a divorce based on fault or no-fault grounds. If you think that you and your spouse can come to an agreement on the terms of your divorce settlement agreement, then it will be easier for you to request a no-fault divorce. This is because no-fault divorces do not require you to go through the tricky process of trying to prove that one of the spouses is at fault.
However, there are some reasons why a fault-based divorce could be more desirable. For instance, courts may take into account the fault or bad behavior of one of the spouses when determining the following: how to divide the marital property; which spouse will have physical and legal custody of any minors; and how much alimony should be awarded, if any. Also, note that it is possible for the spouse that is at fault to not contest the grounds for divorce by admitting his or her own fault. Common fault-based grounds for divorce include adultery, abandonment, cruel and inhumane treatment, habitual drunkenness or drug use, and felony conviction.
Most states require that one or both spouses have resided in the state for a certain amount of time before they can file for divorce in that state. The residency requirement is usually six months to a year. However, review this chart if you are unsure of whether you meet the residency requirement in your state. You may also search online or call the county Clerk of Court if you need more help figuring this out.
A divorce settlement agreement puts everything you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse have agreed upon into writing and can be formalized by the court. Even if you both agree, you will need to complete this documentation to complete your divorce. Other common names for a divorce settlement agreement include the following:
The agreement is designed to lay out the conditions of your divorce and any agreements you have reached with your former partner. A divorce settlement agreement could cover child support, custody, alimony, and even the division of your personal property, shared property, and debts.
Your divorce settlement agreement should cover everything that is important to you, including custody of your children, child support payments, alimony, and the separation of your property, such as your family home, vehicles, and other assets. Your divorce settlement agreement is about more than just the things you own; it should also cover your debts and expected expenses.
If you have kids, everything from paying for braces and related expenses to college savings and tuition needs to be included. If you own pets, even the custody of your animals can be defined in this document. By drafting a comprehensive agreement that covers as many eventualities as you can, you end up with a document that clearly outlines your rights and responsibilities after your marriage. If something is important to you, it should be included in your divorce settlement agreement.
It depends on where you live and whether your divorce is contested or uncontested. If you both agree on everything, you can be divorced in as little as three months, depending on your location. Some states have a mandatory separation or waiting period before a divorce can be finalized. If one party cannot be found or does not agree, your divorce could take up to two years to be complete. The more you agree and the less acrimonious your divorce is, the faster and easier it will be to complete.
In an uncontested divorce, you both agree to divorce and you come up with settlement terms you can both live with without a trial or court intervention. An uncontested divorce is not dispute or negotiation free; it simply means you were able to reach an agreement without resorting to having a judge making the decisions for you. There are some clear benefits to an uncontested divorce, including less stress for both parties, lower costs, and a faster resolution.
In a contested divorce, one party either does not want to divorce at all or the spouses simply cannot agree on the terms. Common areas of dispute include child custody, child support, alimony, and the division of property. When you cannot reach an agreement, you will need to head to court for a judge to decide on these points for you. A contested divorce takes longer, costs more, and is generally more stressful and hostile than an uncontested divorce.
In some countries, a marriage ceremony is necessary before a couple can call themselves legally married in the traditional sense. It is different in the United States, as most states do not require this formality. The main requirements for a traditional marriage are that you be no less than 18 years old; sign a certificate of marriage in the presence of a minister, judge, or another authorized person; and obtain a marriage license from the state. These requirements apply in all 50 states, with only slight differences here and there.
However, it is not always quite as simple as that. Not all states recognize common law marriages. The states that recognize common law marriage today are Colorado, Alabama, District of Columbia, Idaho, Georgia, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, and Utah. Although most states do not recognize same-sex marriages in common law, this has started to change after the federal government legalized same-sex marriages in 2015.
To prove the existence of a common law marriage in the states that permit it, you need to provide evidence that you have lived together for a certain length of time, which is usually two or three years. On top of this, there is other evidence that you may need to provide, such as sharing the same surname, referring in public to each other as husband or wife, sharing bank accounts and other financial commitments, and filing joint taxation returns.
You may also need to show that you naturally formed a relationship that is equivalent to being married. If you need to provide evidence of your common law marriage, you and your partner can sign affidavits swearing that you consider yourselves married. You can also obtain similar affidavits from friends, family members, and others that can attest to you being married. Additionally, you can use any other documents you have that tend to show that you are married, including jointly owned property deeds, bank statements, credit card accounts, birth certificates of your mutual children, employment agreements, insurance policies, and mail addressed to you both in your shared last name. This can only be done in a state that approves of common law marriage. Often, you will need this affidavit when applying for a foreign visa or if you lose your marriage certificate.
Even though not all states offer the status of a common law marriage, if you have gone through the process of confirming this in a state that does accept it, all other states, whether they legally approve of common law marriage or not, have to accept your status. Once you have completed the common law marriage process you will be given the same rights and obligations as people who are traditionally married.
There are two types of child custody: physical custody and legal custody. When a parent in a divorce proceeding receives physical custody, that parent has the right to have the child in question live at the parent's residence.
If the court awards the parents joint physical custody, then the child will split his or her time living with each parent. This often happens if the two parents live close enough to make this option practical. When the child lives mainly with one parent, that parent will have custody of the child while the other parent can gain visitation rights.
Legal custody gives a parent the right to make important decisions about the child’s upbringing, including such important matters as the child's religion and schooling. Again, a court may choose to award joint legal custody to both parents. However, where only one parent receives physical or legal custody, that parent is said to have sole custody of the child in that regard.
It is not necessary to hire an attorney to handle a divorce. That said, for particularly complicated divorces or where large sums of money are at stake, a lawyer will help ensure that his or her client’s interests are best protected. Common disputes include those concerning the custody of children, the question of alimony, and the division of joint assets. You may need an independent mediator to help sort out these issues. Most couples want to sort out these matters as soon as possible, so often an attorney or a mediator offers the best bridge to a satisfactory solution for both financial and emotional matters.
Divorce can be granted in all states in the United States based on a ‘no-fault’ clause, which means both spouses have consented to the divorce. In this situation both spouses are claiming that their marriage has broken down and it is now irretrievable due to the differences between them being too great. Some states accept a no-fault divorce without question, such as Arizona and Colorado (17 states in total). In any other state, you are given the option of either a fault or no-fault divorce.
A no-fault divorce is the easiest route if you are able to reach an agreement on assets, alimony, and child support issues. If there are any issues that could affect the divorce settlement, such as unacceptable behavior of one of the spouses, a fault divorce may be the best idea as this will help to determine such things as the dividing up of joint property, determining the legal and physical custody of any joint children, and the amount of alimony expected.
A fault divorce can take place if one of the partners has committed adultery, has abandoned his or her partner, or has acted in a cruel and inhumane way both mentally and physically. Chronic drunkenness, drug addiction, and felony conviction are potential grounds too. In the state of Illinois, a spouse can also file for an at-fault divorce if bigamy or impotency have occurred.
There are a number of stages to completing the formalities of a divorce.
In most cases the judge will grant the divorce as long as the divorce settlement agreement is fair. If your spouse contests the agreement, you may need to attend further hearings until the matter is satisfactorily resolved. The judge will tell you what, if anything, you need to do.
The procedures in a hearing do vary from state to state. If you are not sure, the Clerk of Court will tell you on request. If there are no irregularities, the judge will review the settlement and make sure that the contents are fair. After this, a divorce decree is granted.
If you and your spouse have been unable to reach an agreement on a divorce settlement, you—with the help of your attorneys or mediators if you are using them—may decide to submit the areas under dispute before a judge at a pretrial conference. This sort of conference normally takes place in the judge's chambers.
If you are using attorneys and the divorce is not mutual or you cannot reach an agreement in terms of child custody, estate distribution, and alimony, then you will probably have two different attorneys representing your individual concerns and interests. These attorneys will put forward your two different positions to the judge at the pretrial conference, and the judge will make recommendations for a just settlement. These recommendations do not bind the parties but help to determine what will happen at the trial. They are also often an impetus to come to an agreement before the trial date.
Even if a pretrial conference cannot bring an early settlement, a trial date will be set, which could take several months. In the period leading up to the trial, your attorney will be undertaking certain tasks as part of the trial preparation. This could include the interviewing of useful witnesses, taking depositions, studying reports from experts, and reviewing any facts submitted by your ex-spouse.
Obviously, if there is a large estate to consider, a trial may be the only way to ensure a fair distribution of the wealth. You can expect to pay a lot of money to go through the trial stage. In the end, you will have no choice but to accept the decision made by the judge, as no jury is involved in divorce proceedings.
If a divorce has become a reality for you, alimony payments may become a necessity. This is most likely the case if one spouse’s earnings are more than the other’s and you have been married for a minimum number of years. If the court orders you to pay alimony, you will need to pay it once a month until a specific date determined by the judge.
There are certain conditions when alimony may cease, including if your spouse remarries, if your children become no longer classified as dependents, if your former spouse does not make at least a minimal effort to support his or herself, and if the recipient of the alimony dies.
One of the most common ways of finding a solution after a marital breakdown is to go through the process of mediation in order to reach an agreement on the terms of a separation or divorce. In divorce mediation, you arrange a meeting between yourself and your spouse and, in some cases, each of your lawyers. You call in a third party who acts as the mediator. The mediator is not responsible for making decisions on your behalf, but uses his or her experience in order to offer suggestions that will help you and your spouse reach a fair agreement on matters such as alimony, child custody, and the distribution of any of your joint assets.
When investments and assets are transferred, a whole new ball game emerges when it comes to paying taxes. You will want to know your tax situation in advance of reaching a financial settlement with your ex-spouse. You must inform the IRS as soon as you know your new marital situation in order to avoid paying either too little or too much tax.
If the divorce is uncontested, you may not have to go to court at all. You will have to file the papers, but the judgment can be sent to you. In some cases, the court may require a hearing that is informal or formal; if there are questions about your papers or your proposed settlement agreement, you may need to review them before your divorce can be finalized.
Even if you do not agree on everything, you can try mediation, arbitration, or even negotiation via a third party before you take your dispute to court. These alternatives often offer a cheaper and faster means of reaching an effective settlement. The most common areas for disputes and disagreements include child custody and support, alimony, and the division of property. If you cannot agree on these things, you may need additional help.
Alimony, or spousal support, can be included in your divorce settlement agreement, specified in a prenuptial agreement, or determined by the court.
Ideally, you and your partner will be able to work out a child custody agreement as part of your separation or divorce agreement. If the court is left to decide, they will make the decision based on the best interests of the children involved. Your state will have specific guidelines designed to help determine custody, but in general, children are best served when they have time with both parents. If you both agree on where the children should live, who should care for them, and how often they should visit the non-custodial parent, then this information can be included in your divorce settlement agreement and eventually merged into your divorce decree.
After completing your divorce settlement agreement, you will need to take the following steps to have your agreement approved with the divorce court:
First you will need to file your petition for divorce or dissolution of marriage with the appropriate court. You can usually find the information for the court you need by calling your county courthouse or by searching online. You can obtain the petition either on your state's family law website or by calling the Clerk of Court. Be sure to check with the clerk to see if any financial affidavits or other attachments are required to be submitted with your petition. If your divorce settlement agreement is complete, you may be able to include it with your petition to help expedite the process.
Serve your spouse with the petition and a summons. This is called "service of process" and it will officially put your spouse on notice that you have initiated the divorce proceedings. Check your state laws to know how to properly serve someone. Most states allow for service via certified mail, return receipt requested. If your state is one of the few that does not allow for service by mail, you will need to get a law officer, private service company, or a disinterested adult to serve the papers in person on your spouse.
Your spouse will need to file a response either accepting or rejecting the statements in your petition. Then your case will be scheduled for a hearing. If your spouse fails to respond, you may receive a default judgment in your favor.
While waiting for the hearing, you and your spouse can finalize the terms of your divorce settlement agreement if parts of it are still being negotiated. You will usually submit your divorce settlement agreement before the hearing to give the judge time to review its terms. Attach copies of any court orders already issued pertaining to your marriage or to matters of child support.
At the hearing, if the judge finds the divorce settlement agreement fair and there are no other issues to decide, the judge will grant your divorce. If the divorce is contested by one of the spouses or the judge finds the divorce settlement agreement to not be fair, the process may take longer and you may be required to attend multiple hearings. Again, it is a good idea to contact a family or divorce court administrator, usually the Clerk of Court, to get information on the specific procedures required in your state.